Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Week 13-17-



















































































Well we started off on July 20th going to Redamac's with my mom and then going to the LaPorte County fair to see Hayden and Hannah show their horses. We met up with Nancy, Debbie, Stacy and Cheryl. It was so good to see everyone and visit for little bit. Addison did really good for an hour and a half and then she got hungry so we had to leave. She had a great time watching the horses though! I can't wait for next year for her to be more entertained by the horses!!

Since its been along time since I have blogged I forgot alot that has happened in the past few weeks but here are some highlights

Celebrating Grammie and Gramps 34th wedding anniversary. We had to postpone celebrating on their actual anniversary because Jeremy and I both got sick for a week..it was horrible. Thank goodness Addie didn't get what we had, but I know that she was a little tired though.

August 4th- first day of school for Addie and mama went back to work. Today we took Addie to school and went through the routine. I think Daddy will be dropping her off in the morning and I will be picking her up as it will be easier for me to get out of work than for him. I work Tuesdays and Fridays in the office and 4 hours at home on Monday's and Thursday's. So I really cut my work schedule to 24 hours a week to be with my daughter. There is nothing more important than her. I wish I could stay home with her everyday. I know that she will get to have some friends at daycare and we are entering a new world. She will get to learn new things... I just think its harder on me than it is on her.

Her first day she did really good, except for her bottle. she isn't used to a bottle and she struggles with it. She is 100% breastfed and rarely gets a bottle so its no surprise to us that she doesn't want to really take it. Her second bottle goes down a lot easier than the first so at least we are improving and she is hungry so it helps.

My parents picked her up from daycare. She was only there for 6 hours so that was reassuring to me. They picked her up on Friday August 7th too. My parents were able to check out her daycare and "approve", even though it is hard seeing her there. I know they do a wonderful job and are taking good care of her. All the kids are happy there and always have tons of fun it seems like. We know a few people that go there so it is nice to know that.

We have seen Dzie Dzie several times the past few weeks and sit with him in the court yard. he just shows off Addie and always sings to her.. "roll out the barrel" is their favorite song together.

August 10th- Addie got her 4 month shots today. She was all smiles in the doctors office until it was time for the shots. She screamed but then once I picked her up she was fine. She weighed 15 pounds and 8 ounces....she is above the 90th percentile. Her head circumference is also above the 90th percentile. Her height....well she finally reached 24 inches and she is in the 50th percentile. I think she is going to take after me for height.... something she got from mama.

well as summer is coming to an end, Grammie has been with Addison the entire summer. I think she has missed only 10 days of seeing her and part of that was them going on vacation for 3 days to celebrate their anniversary.

So the first week of August we got Addie out her new toy... her jumperoo. We got this from Adam and Elizabeth at our shower and then we also got the Baby Einstein one from my Aunt Arlene. We have the one that Adam and E got us in our living room and she loves it. At first she just didn't know what to do but spin this little thing on it and she mastered that right away, but once she figured out that she could jump...holy cow watch out because the second week in August she was going to town on it! It is amazing how quickly she learns and how fast she absorbs things to do.















August 14th- Today Addie and I met Elizabeth and Harrison for some pics in Grandma and Grandpa's yard. I had tons of fun taking pics and we got some of the little ones. Addie wasn't in a smiling mood at all so she is showing her serious look in alot of the pics.
















August 15th- we went on ND campus as it was open practice. Addie took her first trip in the stadium today. However we couldn't take pictures inside the stadium, we decided to walk campus and take some pics. You can tell that Addie wasn't her smiling self... needless to say I didn't know what we were going to encounter the next few days...






























At night we had poker night at Jeremy's parents house. I didn't play but Jerermy did with the family. Addie wasn't feeling her best so I decided not to play. Addie did get a poker lesson from Grandpa.... however she feel asleep.


So Sunday, August 16th was horrible for our family... Addie woke up at 2:15 in the morning just screaming and she was hot. Jeremy got to her nursery faster than I did... she never wakes up screaming so this was a shock to us. Jeremy took her temp under her arm and it was 101.1... yikes. Since it was under the arm and not as accurate we added 1 degree to the temp because the device said so and our doctor said anything over 101.5 get her to the emergency room... don't call just go so we did.

We got to the emergency room around 2:45.. Addie did great in the car. She nursed for a little bit as I didn't know what to do when we woke up. we got her there as fast as we could, but she was screaming when we got to the emergency room. It's like if you moved her she screamed. she was not feeling good at all. My heart was breaking. They gave her Tylenol right away (something we should have done before we left for the hospital.... yeah first time parents learn these things as we go). So in the emergency room we waited and they had to draw blood from Addie. This was horrible because they tried her right arm first and couldn't get into the vein and then had to go to her left arm. I hated every minute of this and just cried as I tried consoling my daugther. Jeremy was so calm through everything, I was a wreck. I kept asking him why aren't you crying and he said "one of us has to be calm and rational on decisions" so true in life. So after they took her blood they needed a urine sample and put this sticky bag over her with her diaper on. She was going to the bathroom #1, but hadn't had a bowel movement since Friday morning 9am. This was so not like her... so all this time I am thinking constipation. well.... so the doc comes back in and asks for x-rays....all the while, Addie's vital are fine and her fever is decreasing. SO Addie has 2 x-rays done. We wait about an hour and the doctor comes back in and says she thinks it might be a little pneumonia in her left lung.. I lost it at this point. Even the doctor said don't cry. I just welled up like a little baby. Addie was just sleeping on me. I held her this whole time and wouldn't let her go one second. So with the whole urine sample thing, it kept missing that stupid bag and they wanted to put a catither in her... I was like this is the final straw and I was like please GOD let there be enough in the bag for a sample. There was... I wasn't going to let them poke my daugther anymore.

So because of the "pneumonia" they gave her an antibiotic in the ER and then admitted us to the Pediatric ICU. I was not expecting this either. So I held her in my arms as they wheeled me to her room, again not letting her out of my arms. She is my baby and I just wanted her to feel better and take away the pain.

So we got to her room, Room 624, I'll never forget that. We get there and see the intern doctor and nurse before the pediatrician gets there. So its 6:30 in the morning now. We haven't called the grandparents yet. We go through their tests upstairs of checking her and meanwhile we haven't slept at all. Finally in my arms after the doctors where down checking her, she had a bowel movement. FINALLY! I was so relieved. I was hoping this would help her feel better. I had asked how long they thought we would be there and they said usually a minimum of 48 hours because of the blood work, but patients do get released before then. SO here I am thinking we are going to be in the hospital for 2 days and I started making the list so Jeremy could bring stuff back because I wasn't going to leave my baby. NO way...

We made the phone call to my parents first and my dad was already at work so my mom had to handle the news on her own. She let our dogs out on her way into the hospital and stayed with us the whole time. She didn't leave us until 8:00 that night.

We called Jeremy's parents and they were praying for us.

So the pediatrician came in and she had looked at the X-rays and said Addie didn't have pneumonia and she wouldn't have recommended the antibiotic. the reasoning behind it is that with an adult x-ray you tell them to take a deep breath, but with a baby you can't and with everything being so compressed, it looked like a slight case so that was the explanation. So it made me feel better that she didn't have pneumonia. So the pediatrician checked her and decided to release her. Thank you God. So when my mom got there it was about 8 in the morning and we didn't get home from the hospital until 10:30 in the morning.

So all in all, Addie had a fever on and off for 2 days and she developed a rash. She still isn't herself yet, but she is getting there. I am so greatful that she is not in the hospital and that she just got a virus (not sure how) and that a little bit of Tylenol has been helping.

So when we got home we were exhausted, but Addie was just in pain as she got poked in both arms for blood and both legs for the antibiotic shot. Poor thing was so sore on top of not feeling good. She just whined and wasn't feeling good at all. My mom stayed with us and Jeremy and I tried to catch up on some sleep for what we could. I basically feel asleep on the couch for 20 minutes here and there while my mom helped with Addie. It is the worst thing ever as a mom to not being able to take away the pain from your child.

So Sunday night, I slept on the floor in Addie's room and she did ok at night for sleep. She was up every few hours and would eat for a few minutes and go back to sleep. Monday night I slept in her room again and she was up every 1.5 hours to 2 hours... needless to say I didn't get much sleep at all. I was just so worried about her. On Tuesday night she was up about every 2 hours... Wednesday night I slept in my room as her fever hadn't been around all day so I felt better about not being in her room. She still woke up alot. Jeremy had to help me in the middle of the night because I was just so exhausted. He was a great help as he took Monday and Tuesday off to be with us and just help with her since she wasn't feeling good at all. We were all exhausted and just wanted our baby to be better.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Weeks 10. 11, and 12

chubby cheeks!!!
Addie grabbing her toes!!
I just love my daughter's smile and those cheeks!!!
Grandpa with Harrison... me with Addie
me with my nephew Harrison and Elizabeth with Addie!
Daddy with Addie
Bob and Riley checking Addison out in the grass with daddy
her first time in the grass!!!
Gramps with Addison...she is just holding on!
Uncle Kenny with Addison... he is just so happy to hold her... made his day.
Addie!

play time on the blanket with Riley and Russeau (Russeau only ahs 1 eye now)
Riley woke Addie up from a nap with kisses.
finally a pic with me and Addie--- there isn't that many.
Grammie, Addie and Riley.
Grammie and Addie
me with Addie!
Addison in her Baptism gown with her bonnet on.
she is in her dress on her changing table in her nursery.
Grandma with Addie on the day she watched her while I worked.
Jeremy testing out the Jeep Carrier before we went to the fair that week.
Jeremy, Addie, Ethan and Nora. proud daddies showing of their little ones on the 4th of July.
Addie pointing to Riley
Gramps with Addie on the 4th
Great Aunt Joan with Addie---Addie passed out on her!

the past few weeks since her Baptism, I have started to go back to work so I am behind on the blog so I am combining alot into this blog entry....

Addison has been doing great with her sleeping. For the most part she goes to bed between 9-10 at night and will sleep till about 4-6 in the morning. Sometimes she wakes up for about a 5 minute feeding at 2 in the morning, but most nights she does sleep through. Our pattern for the past few weeks is that Jeremy will get her at about 6:30-7 in the morning when she is ready to get up and she usually has a nice surprise for him at that time! He changes her and then brings her to me. It is really nice and then I just usually nurse her in my bed, then we take a bath and are ready for the day.

So the week of June 29th-- my mom watched Addie alot this week while I worked. I have a 15th deadline and needed to get some work stuff done while on maternity leave. I don't go back to work until after July 15th...at least that is when my 12 weeks is up, but I have extended that to August 4th will be my official first day working and back in the office and when Addie goes to daycare. She will be going 2 days a week Tuesdays and Fridays and then I will work 1 day at home and 2 in the office.

July 3rd was a Friday and Jeremy had it off. We went shopping, had lunch with my parents... we had planned on going to Redamac's but they were super busy for the holiday weekend so we went to another New Buffalo restaurant. Then after eating, we went shopping at lighthouse mall. My parents stayed in the car with Addie while Jeremy and I went shopping at Carter's. Daddy gave Addie a bath today... he is getting used to it and it helps me out a bunch too to get other stuff done around the house or just relax a bit. Addie slept from 9:30-6:15.

July 4th= We started the day off at Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe's for a cookout like we do every year! Then we headed over to his parents house. We got home around 7:30ish and I was getting nervous on how Addie was going to do with the fireworks. Needless to say she was a trooper… she slept right through them as I was cursing everyone around. Normally I like fireworks, but not outside my 2 months daughter’s window. Addie slept from 9:45-6:00. She is such a good little sleeper.

Today was the first day we really noticed Addie had tears….

July 5th – We did lots of house cleaning today. Addie got to enjoy mama and daddy’s bed while we put laundry away. We propped her up on a pillow and she just had a good old time watching us move around.

July 6th was the annual Girls pool day at Jeremy’s mom house. Jeremy had the day off so he spent it with Addie while I enjoyed some pool time and then I went home so he could go golfing with my dad.

July 7th and 8th- My mom watched Addie a lot of these days as I went to work and worked from home. I got a full detail report of how Addie did, burps and how many included.

July 9th- Grandma (Jeremy’s mom) watched Addie for me today as I went into work to finish up a few things for the 15th deadline. They had a good time playing and Addie got some good rest in too! Grandma had to face her fear with a spider while watching Addie.

Addison went to her first fair today, the St. Joe County fair with Aunt Lisa, Grandma, daddy and me. Jeremy carried her in the jeep carrier and she did so well. She was sleeping at first, but then woke up. She got some fresh air and slept pretty well for us. She went to bed around 10 and got up about 5:15ish.

July 10th- today Addie and I did lunch with Andrea and Kari and then we did some shopping at the mall afterwards. Addie was a little fussy at the restaurant but it was because I woke her up in order to get my purse from Jeremy’s car since I left it in there the night before. We also visited daddy at work too!

July 11th- Jeremy golfed in a charity event with my dad and my old neighbors. They came in 4th place. My mom and I did lunch at Carrabba’s and also did some shopping… The booths at Carrabba’s don’t hold the car seat so we had to get the stand up hammock thing for her car seat to go in. Addison is becoming such an expert shopper!

July 12- We went over to Jeremy’s parents’ house so Jeremy could help his dad put up the fence for Bob since he will be living there once it is up. Addie will still have 3 doggies though…. Just 2 will live with her. She had fun in the willow trees and supervising grandpa and daddy! So Addie has been doing this trick when we get her up in the morning that she likes to have her legs up in the air and her body is in the shape of an “L”. Well we put her jammies on her for the past few nights and put her in her activity center on the floor and she bats at the objects with her feet. Well she started to turn to her side so we took her out and put her on her tummy time mat and she was going on her side and then her back, then her side and then her back. She did a complete circle in about 30 minutes. It was so darn cute! Another little trick of hers. It’s like she is getting close to rolling from her back to her tummy, but she stops. We can’t wait for her to figure it out.

July 13- I worked today in the office and my mom watched Addie. She just loves spending all the time with her. This is the first summer she hasn’t worked in like 15 years!

July 14th- So before my mom came over, Addie rolled from her back to her tummy this morning… twice. I think it was just a fluke though. Then as I had her in her car seat waiting for my mom to show up, she had her first blow out. It was a biggie too. Today mom, Addison and I went shopping, again! Addie got lots of toys and a few outfits from Grammie! We went to Barnaby’s We went and saw Dzie Dzie and he sang roll out the barrel and remembered that she “waved” to him and also spelled out Addie! It was a big day for Dzie Dzie and Addie!

July 15th- mom, Addison and I went shopping again! We are the pros of shopping these days. Addie got a few more outfits and I picked up some outfits for friends that are having babies. Addie is so used to the car seat and going for a ride. I am thinking she says “here we go again mom”


July 16th- mom, Addie and I went shopping, again! We went to China Garden for lunch. I remember going to China Garden when I was a little girl and getting Shirley temples. I told Addie that when she is old enough that she can get them too there! Then we went to Dzie Dzie’s for another visit. I had mini- girl’s night with Gina, Elizabeth and Andrea and then Andrea and I went back to the house. Aunt Julie stopped over for a visit and then Andrea and I went to dinner while daddy stayed home with Addison. They had some father-daughter time.

July 17th- Today I went up to my parent’s house and mom, I and Addison went to Redamac’s! It was so yummy!! Addie was asleep at first but then woke up and she was just smiling away. She loved the fans and lights in there. Later we came home and had to go to a viewing and at the funeral home Addison just giggled away at Aunt Kathy. It was cute, but not the appropriate place to be giggling, but she gets the free pass because of her age!

July 18th- This morning my dad came over with Uncle Kenny and visited for awhile and then we went to see Dzie Dzie. Mrs. Danik at the funeral home loves to see Addie (she is a patient there) and she gave Addie an angel figurine and it is just adorable. When we got home, daddy took Addie outside and let her feet touch the grass. She didn’t mind it at all and even Bob and Riley enjoyed having her outside too! Later on when went to Jeremy’s parents house to celebrate Adam’s 31st birthday and also have a poker party. Addison was with me at the table for a little bit learning how to play -- starting it out young! Mommy tied for first with Uncle Adam... we split as it was getting late and Gramps (my dad) came in third out of 12 people. Mommy added the money to her bank account!

July 19th- We went over to Jeremy’s parent’s house again so Jeremy could help with the fence. Elizabeth, Harrison, Jeremy’s mom, Addison and me all stayed inside and hung out with the babies. Harrison and Addison were so darn cute together. I will have to get pics from them playing on the floor just kicking it. Addie was showing off her new skill of touching her feet! Then Addie enjoyed another shopping trip with Aunt Elizabeth, Harrison and Grandma! Grandma got her an outfit and mama got a few outfits too… I just can’t resist looking at the clothes for her!


The past few weeks Addison has improved/learned


To bat objects (especially with her feet)
she lets you know when she needs a diaper change....she hates being dirty

She moves her head from side to side and follows you so much more

She blows bubbles

She sits in her bumbo seat for a few minutes while she can hold her head up for a period of time.

She notices our faces and just smiles and smiles.

She loves to play and kick in the morning when she wakes up. She doesn’t cry, but will let out a little peep and coos too!

She has found her thumb.

She recognized Jeremy’s voice when I had him on speaker phone… she smiled when she heard it.

She has had her first blow out!

Rolled from her back to her tummy (not perfected yet, but at least did it)

Found her toes

She giggles

She pulls mama’s hair

She loves bath time

She loves to see what is going on… she likes to be held up high (on your shoulder)

Restaurants that Addison has been to already (in no particular order)

· Bar Louie

· Hacienda

· Redamac’s

· Olive Garden

· Carrabba’s

· Red Robin

· China Garden

· Barnaby’s

· Jimmy’s (in New Buffalo)

Shopping stores Addison has been to already

· The Mall

· Kohl’s

· Martin’s

· Meijer’s

· Fox’s