Week 24- Happy New Year

December 30th- We spent the night at my parents house last night as Jeremy was getting ready to paint our bedroom today and all of our furniture was spread out in the other bedrooms. So I was spending the night with Riley and Russeau on the 29th and 30th. There is always something to be said about being "home". It will always be home to me and that is the way it is suppose to be. We of course were pampered at my parents and it was just good to relax. I made the mistake of checking my email though at my parents house so I did have to do some work while I was there. So much for a relaxing vacation.



Today my parents and myself went to the salon. My dad got a manicure. My mom got a hair style and manicure and me and the little one got a facial and hair cut. Baby's first facial!!! We were pampered as usual at the spa... due to the fact that my mom pretty much goes there every Saturday! If this little one is a girl, Jeremy better be prepared to take his little girl to the salon.


December 31st- Today we came back home as Jeremy was finished painting and almost done shampooing the carpets. He has pretty much cleaned his entire vacation and getting ready for the little one to arrive. He is so much better in this department then me. I hope our little one gets his cleaning skills! If it was my choice we would have a cleaning lady. I am still holding out for that one after all these years. It's always on my Christmas list!





The little one is moving more and more and I am starting to wake up from the little one moving around while I am sleeping. My appetite still isn't like it was in the first trimester, but I still do eat. I haven't gained much weight in the past 6 weeks, but my belly sure is growing!





Jeremy came down with a cold while I was at my parents so we didn't make it to Aunt Julie's Happy New Year party. We just stayed at home and Jeremy slept on the couch with Bob (as he didn't want to get me sick). Happy 2009!





January 1st- Today we did our family traditions that have been carried down on my side. We have to wear something new on New Year's Day. We also wash our face in real silver coins to bring health and wealth for the New Year. We also do not spend money on New Year's day, except in emergency purposes. My mom called today and said because I am pregnant that we didn't have to worry about not spending money if I needed something. So we went grocery shopping because food in the frig and freezer were not appealing to me. We just stayed at home and watched football today. Jeremy felt the baby move alot today. However the baby still does like to play tricks on him and when I say the baby is moving and he comes over the baby stops. Then he goes back to his spot on the couch and then the baby starts moving again. He is convinced the baby is doing this on purpose and messing with him. I laugh about it because I think its hilarious!





January 2nd- Today would be the day that we book Ambrosia for the baby shower!! We are going to have it on March 1st!!! Now its time to pick out the invitations. I keep looking online and there are alot that appeal to me, but I just want the perfect one. Who thought picking out a piece of paper could be so difficult?! I just want this to be so perfect for my little one and do everything right!



After we met with Jim (the owner) at Ambrosia, we met Tina for lunch at Papa Vino's. She was passing through from Chicago and going back home to Pennsylvania. I am so happy to stay in touch with her after all these years. She was the maid of honor for our wedding and we are still close. It is hard when going to college at Saint Mary's that you have friends all over the United States so it makes it so nice to stay in touch and get to see each other. I can't believe that her and I have almost known each other for 10 years now. Tina and I were talking that there is something to be said for the Saint Mary's community as that we do a good job of keeping in touch with each other. I don't know that alot of my friends who attended other schools do this. I know that Tina's class does it and my class does it. I just hope this tradition keeps going for years to come! I got to meet her boyfriend Jonathan, which I totally approve of. I can't wait to hear what will be coming of their relationship in the future!!!



January 3rd- Today was a low key day for us... we did do dinner with my parents at Portofino's, one of our usual restaurants with my parents. Our waitress Sally always takes such good care of us. She knows I love my garlic bread and constantly brings it out for me!

January 4th- Today was a fun day as I met Mary to finish the baby registry at Babies R US and thank goodness for friends that are recent moms!!! They offer so much advice and it helps out so much. She brought her almost 7 month son, Bobby and he was so good. He was so content in his car seat and I just hope that our little one is as patient and so good as he was. He is a little cutie on top of it all too! Mary and I were able to double the size of the registry within about 2 hours and I now have over 100 items on it! That was alot of stuff to look at and determine that were needed items for a little one! Our little one will definelty know Aunt Mary!! She has been a godsend through this whole process!

January 5th- After work today I met Lauren and Larry for dinner then the five of us (Lauren, Larry, Jeremy, me and the little one) all went to the Notre Dame vs Georgetown game. Larry graduated from Georgetown so they try to go to this game every year. Notre Dame was the winner! It was so great to see them and I so enjoy the memories that we are creating. The first thing Lauren did was touch the belly and I love it!!! This baby has so much love already that it is just so amazing! I am truly thankful that our little one will have the best aunts and uncles!!! The little one got to hear and feel Aunt Lauren and hear Uncle Larry!

I will also be seeing Lauren this weekend as we are doing a girls weekend at Beth's house. I can't wait!! Baby and mama are getting a facial (again). They are so relaxing and my skin needs it!

The baby moves so much at night time now and in the morning when I am taking a bath. I find myself sometimes sleeping on my stomach still and then immediately turn to my side. THe doctor said the body will let you know when you can't sleep on your stomach but I try to watch it as much as possible. I have to say that when I am up moving around the baby is not very active, but as soon as I want to sit and rest... watch out! The movement is getting more defined as I can tell the little one is growing more and more. I think I finally gained a pound in the past few weeks, but I feel my stomach has gotten alot bigger as my belly button is wanting to "pop" out.

Week 23- Christmas

December 24th- Today we spent time with Dzie Dzie at the nursing home. It is so different with him being that the holidays aren't just what they used to be growing up. It's cliche but as new ones are born, new traditions begin. I just have to think that we are starting new traditions for our little one.

After seeing Dzie Dzie, we went to Jeremy's parents house to celebrate with his mom's side of the family. Before dinner, we took Jeremy's mom aside to show her the ultrasound pictures as we wanted this to be a private moment. We showed her the little ones feet and profile pics and she cried seeing her little grandbaby. It was great to share this moment with her and will treasure this forever.

After all the baby excitement, we had an awesome dinner! After dinner Santa comes for the kids but everyone takes part in seeing Santa and I even captured a few of us on his lap! Considering that there were about 45 people at Christmas dinner, Santa was busy handing out gifts! It will be good for our little one to experience a big family Christmas as my family is all over the United States that we do not do this anymore and Jeremy's family is all here in town so it makes it a good tradition for our little one to have a big family Christmas.

After the presents, we waited for Notre Dame to take the screen and watch them in the Hawaii bowl. Man I wish I was there. It has almost been 15 years since I have been there and I kept telling Jeremy that he is going to take me and our little one for a vacation... I have a feeling he will milk this one out for another 15 years! He better start saving now because he knows that I want to travel with our little one and Hawaii is on that list. We can show him history with Pearl Harbor and that my grandpa was there during the war and I got to experience Hawaii with my grandpa and can share these stories with our little one. Oh I forgot to mention ND wins!! finally the losing streak is over for bowl games! Jeremy got his Christmas wish for a Notre Dame victory.

December 25th- Today Jeremy and I celebrated Christmas with the dogs when we woke up. We just exchanged little gifts this year, well I guess I got my digital camera, but he is getting suits for work so kinda a practical Christmas for us this year. We got stuff we needed, not what we wanted. I started to get the house set up for my family's Christmas. My parents came over in the morning and we did gifts with them. Of course we were spoiled again and so was the little one and granddogs. I can't believe how much my parents do for us and its just means the world to us. The best gift the baby received was a poem/sonnet that my parents wrote that I will have to get a really good picture of to post on here. It is a gift from the heart and priceless. My parents are all about words of wisdom and this gift is framed and will go in the nursery and be there for the little one to read everyday of his/her life.

After the gifts, we got dinner ready and Mitch, Lorissa, Brandi and Matty came over to celebrate and it was great to see them. Matty is always a good helper and will be a great influence on our little one. He always helps with the dishes and clearing the plates. He has done this since he was like 3.5 years old. I wish alot more kids were like him and he listens so good.
Today was a great day for my mom as her Christmas wish came true and she felt her grandbaby move. She loved it!!! I was happy that she was able to experience this today as I knew that she wasn't happy with my dad, but it was all good in the end!

December 26th- This was the day that we stayed home as the bypass, toll road and US 31 were closed due to icy roads. So what did we do.... we cleaned out the office today. Actually I should say that Jeremy did. I tried for alittle bit, but taking a nap on the couch was much more appealing to me.

December 27th- Today we celebrated Christmas with Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe and Kojak. My parents made prime rib for this dinner. We got away from the ham, turkey and sausage that is usually served in our family for Christmas dinner. We just chilled out at their house and just talked. The tv was off the whole time and it was good to relax and just share memories. Aunt Joan was able to feel the baby and it meant so much to her. She was so excited and so thrilled to feel the little one moving. Kojak had to partake in the baby feeling too as he wanted to be on my belly. He is such a cute little 7 pound toy poodle!

December 28th- Today we ventured out get Jeremy's suits that he needs as he out grew his other ones. We picked out 4 new suits for him today. This will come in handy with the Christmas present from my parents. We also went to babies R US and did the registry today. We literally only wanted to set it up and just clicked on a few things as I am going to go with my friend Mary who is a recent mom and she will let me know what I need to get and what can stay at the store! We then met my parents at Outpost and I got another Christmas present... UGG slippers as mine were wearing out from 4 years ago. Jeremy also got another present.... a rabbit hat that will keep him warm while he snow blows and also at Notre Dame games. He totally looks like a hunter with this hat on, but its totally worth it. I think he wore it all the way home! He is so silly!

Oh so totally venting time.... I have completely noticed other bad drivers on the road... this lady in a mini van pulled out in front of me today so what did I do... pulled up beside her to let her know how I felt (I didn't cuss or flip her off... she raised my hand like what's up don't you realize I am pregnant) She apologized..... which she should have.... I am so protective over this little one and noone is going to harm my little one without me saying something. Jeremy got a little mad at me and told me to calm down which he knows that people just need to recognize!

Week 22- The Nursery & Ultrasound

I couldn't get the blog to work correctly... so sorry the pic is at the top.... story below. This is the rocking horse that Jeremy's parents got their grandbaby.

All of our stockings at Jeremy's parents house.

The 4 kids before we received our baby gift! me, Jeremy, Adam and Elizabeth.

So this past week has been very eventful. With the economy, I was very lucky at work to keep my job, but others were not so lucky and just thinking of them at this time.

December 17th- We had our nursery furniture delivered!!! We have one more piece which is the tall dresser that we should get in February. We received the crib, the combo hutch, the changing table topper thing, and conversion kit to a full bed. I have taken pictures of the "room" before the furniture and after the furniture. The room was painted in a Disney theme because I collect the Disney snow globes so we just made a room of it. We thought this was going to be the nursery room, but guess what... I am changing my mind and want to go to the bigger bedroom which is the old guest room now. So now when we have guests spend the night, they will be in the old nursery room with a Disney theme. Jeremy is so loving me at the moment....

December 20th- Today we went to visit Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe and we received tons of goodies. Aunt Joan is a baker and she sent home rum balls, kiefles, fudge, potato candy among other goodies. We did some baking too at Aunt Joan's and Jeremy even helped in the process. We made white chocolate peppermint bark. We had to crush the candy canes, melt the chocolate and then mix it all together. We spent a few hours with them and just hanging out. They can't believe how big the belly and chest are getting. They can't wait for this little one to arrive. They love him/her so much. I just can't wait for them to meet!

Later this evening we had the Bowering Christmas party at Jeremy's parents house. they were excited for us and some of the aunts kissed the belly. I totally love the attention the belly is getting as I think this is so important for stimulation of feelings for the baby and to know how much he/she is loved.

December 21st- We celebrated Christmas with Jeremy's parents, Adam and Elizabeth today. Jeremy's dad did the cooking, which I miss so much from living there. He is a good cook! He made a roast with vegetables and salmon. I did not partake in the salmon as I try to stay away from seafood during pregnancy. After dinner, we opened up presents and this is always fun. I just can't wait for next year for our little one to open up gifts and see his/her face when doing this. This year, the baby received a rocking horse from Jeremy's parents. It is so cute and even makes noise! I can't wait for the baby to be big enough to ride it!

December 22nd- Today was the ultrasound. Our appointment was at 8:30 this morning. We actually didn't start until about 8:50 as the technician wrecked her car. The weather hasn't been the best at all lately so I felt so bad and wasn't mad that we were running behind. I was very nervous today as all I wanted was a healthy baby. We didn't care about finding out the sex, just wanted the most important gift, a healthy baby.

So it was time for the ultrasound and to be honest as she started to pull up the baby/placenta/my bladder on the screen... I had no clue what was what. Thank goodness for labeling on the screen! Once she pulled up where I could see the baby it was so amazing. It was very easy to pick out the spine but that was about it, well besides the face. We saw the little ones feet first and that is our first picture that we received. I was relieved to know that our little one had legs and feet! Next was the arms and hands... again said another thank you to God. She showed us the head and did measurements on the brain. We then got to see the stomach, heart and kidneys. All of which look normal according to the doctor. I do have to say that we have a stubborn little one though...which Jeremy is already saying is my child. Since Jeremy and I are both polish.... this little one is already carrying on its heritage!

So after the doctor came in to tell us the reports from the pictures I did get some tears as I was just so relieved to know that everything was ok.

We then went to the car and I called my mom and dad and they were so excited to hear. We called Jeremy's mom and told her and then called Adam to get ahold of his dad and told them.

Later that night, Jeremy had basketball and I decided to go up to my parents and took the ultrasound pics with me. My dad went through them thoroughly and pointed out some things as this is so normal of him to do. He is very detailed and wants to know everything! My mom was cooking meatloaf for dinner and I was getting hungry so we stayed for dinner. The baby started to move and my dad was sitting the closest to me and I told him so he got to feel his grandbaby move. My mom wanted to be first so bad, but my dad beat her to the punch. So now gramps has felt the baby. How special!

So this week, the baby moves alot when I am taking a bath. It is pretty consistent in the morning now. The baby is also moving a little more during the day and then also more and more at nighttime. This little one has been very good to mama.

So I was able to capture another picture of Bob on the pregnancy pillow. He loves it!

Week 21- Party time!

December 9th- Today we had lunch with Mary and its so good to see her and keep up doing lunch once a month. I got the update on Bobby and also received a picture!! He is such a cutie!! Mary and I talked about pregnancy and she had some wonderful words of advice. She is such a great listener and also provides honest feedback to me on things which is great! Thanks Mary... what would I do without you. You always seem to understand the drama!



December 10th- Today would be my last class of auditing (well at least I hope).... I took my final today. I was excited to come home and just relax. Jeremy and I did our usual betting on Jeopardy. He always wins agianst me, but its fun that we have the competition. During the show, he put his hand on my belly just to see if he can feel the baby, which we both think is way too early to experience because most women are just feeling the baby move themselves at like 20 weeks and just too much padding there for him to feel. I think it will be at least another month before he will be able to feel. At least this is pretty consistent with what my friends have told me. It is usually the 6 month... 6.5 month mark when they can start feeling the baby move. Anyway, it will happen when it happens! No rush on things.

December 12th- We had Jeremy's Christmas party at Yesterday's and it was alot of fun. Mama ate good today because I had my luncheon at work and had 2 salads and lots of baked ziti. Then at Yesterday's I had another salad and then prime rib and a fudge brownie for dessert. It was good to hang out with Jeremy's coworkers and catch up with them on the holidays.

December 13th- This was my Crowe Holiday party at Century Century. I hate calling it a Holiday party... so to me its a Christmas Party! I was the chair this year of the event and with budgets being cut... and we all know Budget is a bad word for me. I tried to do my best but it wasn't as good as Jeremy's party. I will take Yesterday's anyday! The photographer that we had at the party was a family friend and I can't wait to see some of the pics!!

This morning Jeremy was able to feel the baby move. We were laying in bed this morning and I was laying flat and wanted him to see if he could feel. I guess the trick is laying down... I was sitting up before. So he felt the baby move a few times this morning. My mom keeps wanting to feel the baby so we will see the next time they are over if the little one is moving for her to feel.

My dad stopped over this afternoon and we chatted for awhile. Of course he put his hand on the belly.... it is adorable because he is one passionate Grandparent and its awesome... I just couldn't wish for anything more.

December 14th - Today I had my spa party at the house and it was nice to just have a few people over. Jeremy's mom and my mom both kissed the belly, which is very cute. I just love it. I finally got to see the ultrasound pictures in person and they were pretty awesome. I just love the profile of my nephew Harrison.

So to wrap up the week... the baby is moving more and more. A little more active in the mornings again, which I am not complaining about one bit. The baby is also active at nighttime as well. There are a few points in the middle of the day, but not much. Russeau now gets up with me in the middle of the night when I have to make those bathroom trips so he usually gets to be in bed with me and Jeremy. Riley is starting to realize that Russeau is out of his home so she usually gets let out now. I am getting into bad habits with them because they all slept through the middle of the night, but because I am making my bathroom breaks they are getting on my schedule. Bob is the only one who sleeps. He loves his bed in his home and he is like is daddy... not moving for anything. Right now Russeau is my monkey see monkey do one.

Week 20- We're half way there..... (love Bon Jovi)

December 2nd-- We hit the half way point in the pregnancy and its been wonderful. I am still feeling great. Eating is about normal and I have that prego belly. I have received so many compliments that I am such a cute prego lady. I just love it!!! Everyone at work has been so nice and always stops to asks to see how I am feeling and how I am doing. I have become the "little mama" in my department and so love it. They all look forward to the outfits that I am wearing since I am still wearing pretty much all new clothes that I received from Mary, Jen, Missy and Terrie (thank you ladies).

December 3rd- Today was a great day for several reasons. Today would be the day to find out if we were having a niece or nephew. I must first start out by saying that I emailed Elizabeth and Adam first thing this morning from work (like I always do when they have an appointment..... I think it is so important to do this and also because I just love my soon to be niece or nephew) and wished them luck at their ultrasound to make sure that everything was perfect and healthy for them and the baby. I now know that their appointments are later in the day... well I had my last class for school this evening and when class got out, I called Adam and they had the results but they were waiting to tell the parents first so totally understand that one. They were planning on coming over to our house to show us the pics but I had plans with my best friend Andrea for dinner at Yesterday's in Granger! So I would have to wait for the results... but I did find out that they did see the heart, brain, and spine and everything was so far so good! (Prayers were answered).

So I met Andrea for dinner and her and I always have so much fun together. Our dinner turned into almost a 3 hour dinner with just her and me... we laughed so much and told stories and just couldn't stop cracking up. we sat in the bar room where there was a fireplace and became friends with the table next to us that had 2 guys and 2 ladies....(they were there for business). Andrea and I kept on ordering food and splitting everything. It was so much fun. when it came time for dessert we got the fudge brownie and ice cream... well of course this brought attention to us even more because if you have ever been to Yesterday's.... their desserts do not come in a small size... it is all MEGA size! needless to say we did not finish the dessert, but it sure was good. When we finished dinner the girls that we met were a little tipsy and gave us hugs and didn't want us to leave... it was pretty funny and entertaining at the same time. So it was almost 9:00 and we had been with each other since like 5:45.... we decided that we couldn't go shopping so we both headed home, but Andrea first had to say goodbye to the baby... she was so cute... .she was like this is your Aunt Andrea and we can't wait to meet you... she is already planning trips over the summer when I am on maternity leave to be with me and the baby. How sweet is she... she is just so awesome. I told her that we are very lucky to have her in our lives and that I have some really good friends that have really come through during the pregnancy and take the time to call and check in and ask how we are doing... so thoughtful!! I knew that my friends were special, but you don't realize until you hit some important times in your life.... So thanks to all our wonderful friends!!! We love you.

So on my way home Jeremy called and said that Adam and Elizabeth left a message... so finally I was going to find out if it is going to be a niece or nephew... now if we go back a few weeks in my blog, I made the comment about cravings and what Elizabeth was craving and what I was craving... I said that she was going to have a boy and that we are going to have girl based on this.... So would the prediction be correct....... YES!!! We are going to have a nephew to spoil!!!! This is gonna be one lucky little boy with us an an Aunt and Uncle! Congrats to them and we can't wait to meet him.

ok - so when I got home we had some Christmas cards and I loved the one that Lauren, Larry and Rascal sent us... she addressed it to Sami, Jeremy, baby-to-be, and pups Miller.... how adorable is that.... This is going in the baby book!!! Thanks Laur... you are so sweet!!!

So this wasn't the end of the evening... last night I crawled into bed and started watching my soaps because that is just what I do... I know I am crazy for watching soap opera's but it does relax me and Laur will be happy that its ABC soaps that I have watched for the past 20-25 years of my life! So Jeremy finally comes into bed and Bob decides that he wants to crawl into bed with us... totally fine we don't mind having the dogs in bed with us... they are like our kids. Anyway, so I am getting ready to turn the TV off... Jeremy is sleeping and Bob has his head on the pillow next to Jeremy's head.. I just couldn't resist and I had to take a picture. Bob did wake up a little, but Jeremy stayed asleep. Also I was able to catch Bob in the morning laying in between my pregnancy pillow... I finally captured it! He loves to snuggle and have a bed around him.. Such a spoiled dog he is... Any indication of what our child will be?!

December 4th- We went to see Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe today with my mom. It was a long day, but worth it. Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe are so excited for this little one. They can't believe how much I have grown in the chest area and they both hope this little one is a hungry one because looks like mama will be able to provide enough for the baby! The baby had its first conference today (not work related) as we met with Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe's lawyers to go over paperwork. We went all over Michigan today too... we were in Dowagiac, Eau Claire, St. Joseph, and Niles. It was a great visit with the family. Oh- we also got a gift from Kojak (Aunt Joan and Uncle Joe's toy poodle) for the baby shower. It is something that we can use!!! They can't wait for this little one to arrive and Aunt Joan tells me that she will not walk with the baby as she can't walk very sturdy, but she will just hold the little one. She is just so loving. Her and I talk at least twice a week. She calls in and checks on me and it is so wonderful to have that. Her and I are so close and I love it.

When I got home it was pretty late, but worth it. Jeremy had my Christmas present opened and ready for use... he got me a Nikon digital camera with 2 different lens!!! I was so excited. He got action photos of the dogs greeting mama as soon as she gets home. We also tested it out with the dogs so I have attached some pics of that.

Daddy with Riley

Me with Riley

Me with Russeau, Riley and Bob

Getting some lovin' from Bob and Riley

So I have to say that my mom sends her daily emails checking in on me and the grandbaby. She does this everyday and its so nice. she can't wait for this little one!!!

December 5th- Today I went over to my old department to visit with everyone. I talked with Danielle and Tammy. Tammy always touches the belly everytime and she is going to be a wonderful aunt. It's so fun to have this experience with my friends.

So I have to admit that I am noticing a change at nighttime with the little one and sleep patterns. I am finding myself tossing and turning more at night to get comfortable. The pregnancy pillow helps, but then I get hot so I end up putting the pillow on the floor during the night. It's all worth it though.... Oh I do find myself making trips to the bathroom more and more. My friend David told me that he is helping his wife Becca out of bed in the middle of the night as it is getting difficult for her to get up on her own. I told Jeremy to be prepared for that one!

December 7th- Today my parents came over and took us to lunch. I also showed off the camera that Jeremy got me. I was able to catch some photos of the dogs when they see Grammie's car. They just love her to pieces! I've attached a few pics of the granddogs!

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After we had lunch with my parents, we went to see Dzie Dzie and he still tells me that I am having 2 girls. We shall see if he is right in a few weeks with the ultrasound.

So after we got back from Dzie Dzie's, Jeremy's mom came over with our St. Nick stockings. This was very sweet of her. We normally get them when we celebrate Christmas so this was a good surprise for us.